THAT LAST UGLY ARGUMENT

December 28, 2020LOVE-DOCTOR TO THE OC

Remember that last argument you had with your spouse.? Do you remember? Really? Perhaps it turned into a shouting match… a LOVE DRAIN… like the one I identified last time.  Perhaps … as is often the case…  you don’t even remember what your fight was about. What you more likely to remember is how you […]

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WHEN POLITICS INTERFERES WITH “LOVE”

August 17, 2020Friendship

Politics is an adversarial game. For the most part, it is an ugly “game” and watching too much  TV, I’ve decided, Is not good for mental health. At east it’s not good for mine. Friendship and family, on the other hand, depend on LOVE and connection. Can these two ideas be reconciled?  The quality of […]

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“HUSBAND FOR SALE”

“HUSBAND FOR SALE”

July 21, 2020"HUSBAND FOR SALE"

Maybe you also caught the newspaper photo of the “HUSBAND FOR SALE” banner, flying from an apartment window. I smiled when because I guessed that whoever it was who posted it was kidding. But I also smiled because I understand how too much togetherness can get on your nerves. ADVICE FROM THE LOVE DOCTOR   […]

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LOVE AND HO’OPONOPONO

May 31, 2020ANOTHER LOVE CHALLENGE

If you want: To reduce the stress in your life… To improve your relationships with others… To live a happier and more positive life… If you want more control over your emotions, some say to “move to Hawaii”. GUESS WHAT?  Hawaii can come to you. The Hawaiian practice of HO’OPONOPONO is portable. I understand it […]

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A CO-ISOLATION CHALLENGE

April 5, 2020A CO-ISOLATION CHALLENGE

Good chance that comedian Rodney Dangerfield and/or his wife had once experienced some sort of depressive episode. In any event, everyone laughed with recognition, when he said, “We sleep in separate rooms, have dinner apart, take separate vacations – we’re doing everything we can to keep our marriage together…” His joke takes on new meaning […]

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