“SHOULD “MELISSA” CHANGE … JUST TO KEEP ‘BRAD HAPPY?”

March 11, 2019A KINDER AND GENTLER "WALL"

      Yes… within reason. Change is inevitable, desirable for you, for “Brad” and for your marriage. It’s all a matter of degree, I told “Melissa.” It does need to go both ways; your husband has to be willing to bend some, too. Changing small things about yourself to please your partner is part […]

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A “WALL”: KINDER AND GENTLER

February 26, 2019A KINDER AND GENTLER "WALL"

        With all the uproar in the news about building “WALLS,” I can’t help but reflect about another kind of BOUNDARY-BUILDING… that between intimate partners.                 This “WALL”is one that can be adjusted according to need.  It’s a relationship-builder that makes things a lot more […]

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